Talking about your ex on a first date?
I often hear that singles start talking about their ex right away during a first date — and sometimes, it’s even in a negative way.
For many singles, that’s a real dealbreaker.
Why? Because it can give the wrong impression: you might come across as negative, not over your past yet, or as someone who can’t offer emotional safety — exactly the qualities most people are looking for in a partner.
And even if you’re not speaking negatively but simply talk too much about your ex, it can still make it seem like you’re not ready to move on or commit — which can leave a negative impression.
My advice: leave your ex out of the conversation, especially on a first date. Show genuine interest in the person sitting across from you and maintain a positive attitude. That’s often seen as one of the most attractive qualities you can have.